Long Distance Dating

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After meeting, if you both agree that this relationship is one worth pursuing, you will need to make sure the communication lines are wide open until the time for one of you to move. Keep in mind that although fun and exciting, this time is also very stressful, which is perfectly normal. You might also feel a sense of overwhelming insecurity, which is also normal.

Because these emotions will pop up, it is important that when you receive a message from the other person, you respond immediately. This will provide much needed confirmation that he or she is just as committed as you are. As you prepare to make your move, you can keep romance alive, even long-distance.

While some people may think this is a corny idea, others who have tried it will tell you that it works. Set phone dates that consists of each person making dinner, sitting down with candlelight and wine, and then talking over the phone during dinner. This is an excellent way to set special time aside in a relaxed setting, as you prepare for the real one-on-one romantic dinner.

During this separation, try to stay focused on the new adventure that lies ahead of you and not the changes that you are currently going through. Falling in love is a wonderful thing and your time apart is only temporary. Make sure that each time you say your goodbyes, whether on the phone or via e-mail, again provide confirmation and support. You need to let each other know that you truly are in love and are committed to this new walk in life.

Most importantly, you have to trust each other while these changes are occurring. In addition to changing jobs, selling or moving from a home, saying goodbye to family and friends, there is also the dread of being apart from the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with so trust must be a huge piece of the transition.